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Now or After the Holidays? The Best Time for Assisted Living

  • Francine Waskavitz

  • Nov 21, 2025

Now or After the Holidays? The Best Time for Assisted Living

Nov 21, 2025

April 15, 2025

This certification is based entirely on employee feedback collected through an independent survey measuring trust, teamwork, respect, and pride within the workplace. For us, it confirms what we’ve always believed: Spring Oak is more than a workplace — it’s a family.

We’re proud to announce that Spring Oak Senior Living has officially been certified as a 2025 Great Place to Work® — a national recognition that reflects the voices of our team members and the unique culture we’ve built together.

A Culture of Care – For Residents and Staff Alike

At Spring Oak Senior Living, we understand that when our team members feel supported, valued, and respected, that care naturally extends to the residents we serve. That’s why we work hard to cultivate a culture rooted in:

Integrity – doing the right thing, always

Compassion recognizing the individual behind every need

Support – uplifting each other through challenges and celebrations

Family – treating each other with the kindness and understanding we’d want for our own loved ones

Whether it’s a caregiver on the overnight shift, a dining team member preparing a resident’s favorite meal, or a regional leader checking in to offer guidance, every role matters — and every voice is heard.

Families often find themselves asking the same questions every December: “One more holiday at home?” “Should we wait until after the holidays for assisted living?” Or the one we hear most often in January: “We probably shouldn’t have waited.”

This thoughtful guide looks at the real considerations behind timing a move — from winter safety and caregiver strain to the unexpected benefits of transitioning during a season filled with connection and support. If you're weighing whether to move now or after the holidays, this article offers clarity, compassion, and a grounded perspective to help your family make the decision with confidence.

A Season Filled with Love — and Unexpected Challenges

Every year as the holidays approach, families have the same conversation around kitchen tables, over group texts, or during late-night phone calls:

“We want to give Mom one more holiday at home.”

It’s one of the most loving things a family can say.

That instinct — to protect traditions and preserve the familiar — comes from a place of deep connection, loyalty, and memory.

But for many families, the reality of the holiday season looks different than expected.

A Season Filled with Love — and Unexpected Challenges

The very season that was supposed to bring comfort often magnifies challenges that have been building quietly all year: loneliness, unstable mobility, caregiver burnout, winter safety risks, medication changes, disrupted routines, and the emotional strain of trying to hold everything together.

After the new year, many families tell us the same thing:

“We wish we had done this sooner.”

This guide is meant to offer clarity and perspective — especially if you’re torn between honoring tradition and protecting your loved one’s wellbeing.

Why Families Often Wait — and Why It’s Completely Normal

For many adult children, delaying until after the holidays feels like the kind and thoughtful choice. You want the celebrations. The familiar smells and sounds. One more season where nothing changes.

Waiting feels easier. Less emotional. More comfortable.

But waiting can come with hidden costs — not because families aren’t trying, but because the holidays naturally intensify what aging adults struggle with most:

  • More time alone as the weather gets colder
  • Higher risk of falls due to icy weather and lower mobility
  • Disrupted routines as schedules change
  • Medication mix-ups during holiday chaos
  • Greater caregiver strain
  • Seasonal depression and loneliness

By the time January arrives, many families feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or managing sudden safety issues they didn’t anticipate.

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What It Means to Be a Great Place to Work®

Being named a Great Place to Work® means our team members feel:

Proud of their work and the impact they make

Connected to their coworkers and leadership

Confident in the company’s mission and direction

Appreciated for who they are and what they contribute

It also means that our communities are filled with people who show up each day with heart — and with a shared purpose to make life better for others.

To our incredible team: thank you for making Spring Oak a great place to work — and a great place to live.

The Winter Reality Families Don’t Always See Coming

1. Falls and Injuries Rise

Shorter daylight hours, icy walkways, and changes in routine increase fall risk. One fall can change everything.

2. Holiday Loneliness Is Real

A nurturing, close-knit environment where every resident is treated like family.

Adult children juggle travel, work schedules, school breaks, and full calendars of events. Even when everyone is doing their best, it becomes nearly impossible to be present as often as they’d like.

Meanwhile, older adults often spend long stretches of the holiday season alone — especially in the quieter moments between celebrations. What families picture as a month filled with connection can actually feel like the opposite for someone aging at home:

  • Fewer visitors than expected
  • Missed events due to mobility or energy changes
  • Difficulty participating in larger gatherings
  • More time sitting, waiting, or trying not to “be a burden”

And because the holidays are so emotionally charged, loneliness feels sharper this time of year.

Many residents share with us that December was the month they felt the most alone — not because their families didn’t care, but because life kept pulling everyone in different directions.

Inside a community setting, those gaps naturally close. There are people around. Conversations happening. Music playing. Activities unfolding. It becomes much harder to feel alone — and much easier to feel part of something again.

3. Caregivers Hit Their Breaking Point

Spouses or adult children take on more in December:

  • Extra responsibilities
  • Extra emotional labor
  • ‍Extra pressure to “make the season special”

4. Medical Needs Don’t Take a Holiday

Even during the most festive weeks of the year, medical needs continue — and the holiday season can make them harder to manage. Clinics operate with limited hours, pharmacies close early, and specialist appointments become harder to schedule or reschedule. Winter weather can delay transportation or make routine visits unsafe.

For aging adults who rely on consistent medication timing, regular monitoring, or help coordinating care, even small interruptions can create bigger issues. And for caregivers, trying to balance holiday responsibilities while keeping track of medications, appointments, and changes in health can quickly become overwhelming.

What often feels like a simple delay — “We’ll call the doctor after the holidays” — can lead to unintentional gaps in care during a time when older adults are already more vulnerable.

5. Cognitive Changes Become More Noticeable

The holidays naturally disrupt routines — mealtimes change, visitors come and go, days feel busier, and evenings get darker earlier. For older adults experiencing memory loss or early cognitive changes, these shifts can magnify symptoms:

  • More evening confusion
  • Increased agitation
  • Trouble following conversations in crowded rooms
  • Forgetting familiar steps or tasks
  • Difficulty navigating decorations or clutter
  • Struggling with transitions from one activity to the next

Families often describe an “ah-ha moment” in December:

“We knew something was going on, but the holidays made it impossible to ignore.”

This doesn’t mean anything changed overnight. It simply means the season exposed what their normal routines were quietly stabilizing.

Why Moving into Assisted Living Before the Holidays Can Make the Transition Easier

1. Families Have More Time to Help

Holiday PTO and built-in togetherness create space to:

  • Decorate their new space
  • Bring meaningful items
  • Visit more often
  • Share meals
  • Maintain traditions without the strain

2. The Community Is Warm and Festive

Senior living communities are most vibrant in December when they’re full of:

  • Seasonal meals
  • Familiar holiday music and programs
  • Visits from families
  • Crafts, decorating, and seasonal events
  • Familiar traditions

The community is already gathering, creating a natural environment for connection.

3. Families Adjust Together

You’re already:

  • Calling more
  • Visiting more
  • Checking in
  • Sharing meals
  • Spending meaningful time together

The transition becomes something you walk through together, rather than something your loved one faces alone after the new year.

4. “One More Holiday” Doesn’t Disappear — It Just Looks Different

Families often find more joy in the holidays because:

  • The caregiving pressure lifts
  • Traditions still happen
  • They can focus on being fully present

How Structured Routines in Assisted Living Create Stability and Calm

What sets us apart:

Award-Winning Assisted Living Services

Compassionate care tailored to the unique needs of each resident.

Family-Focused Culture

A nurturing, close-knit environment where every resident is treated like family.

Top-Rated Staff

Highly trained caregivers and professionals dedicated to providing the highest quality senior care.

Vibrant Lifestyle

Daily activities, wellness programs, outings, and special events that keep residents active and connected.

Trusted by Families

Recognized not just by publications, but by the community members who entrust us with their loved ones.

Recognized for Excellence in Culpeper Assisted Living

Receiving the “Best of the Best” award in 2024 and again in 2025 confirms our standing as one of the top senior living communities in Culpeper County. We’re proud to be a trusted partner in senior care for families seeking a safe, comfortable, and enrichin

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If you’re exploring assisted living near Culpeper, VA or looking for the best senior care facility for your loved one, we invite you to discover what makes Spring Oak at Culpeper truly special.

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